Ok, one thing most people forget and completelty get lost in is picking out their wedding music. When you think about it, people normally only pick out one song or two or three songs but they don’t realize that you actually have about 5 or 6 songs that you have to pick out for your wedding and even though you have a band or a dj there to play the songs for you, you also have to memorize the songs, know them and practice with them. I know that seems a bit ridiculous but lets go over all of the wedding songs you will need for your wedding,,,I know most of us have picked out our first dance song already but at the same time there are a lot more.
Sooo anyways, here are the songs that you need to pick out for your wedding music: (These are the basic songs, there are others too).
- Your first dance
- The march down the aisle for the wedding party
- The march down the aisle for the bride
- Mother and Son Dance
- Father and Daughter Dance
- The song for the Parents of the Bride and Parents of the Groom to dance too
- Then the song for you to exit your wedding to head to your honeymoon or leave for the night.
Anyways, all of these songs are fabulous and amazing and perfect for every wedding and I found a shop online called T Carter that not only has created CDs with popular songs and has them broken down onto CDs for you so you can listen to them ahead of time, but you can also use the cds to rehearse and practice dancing and walking to until your big day. But why do you need to practice dancing and walking to your wedding music, because you don’t want to look like an idiot while it is playing and look like you don’t know how to dance, etc… in front of all of your friends and family and on your wedding videos. Anyways, here is a break down of how to prep for your wedding music and wedding songs and click any of the links in this post and you’ll be taken to T Carter Wedding Music where you can buy cds with all of your wedding music already on the cds as well as get wedding suggestions and music suggesstions and ideas for music for the Mother and Son Dance, Father and Daughter Dance, the Dance for your Parents, for The Bride to walk down the aisle too (Jewish weddings don’t play here comes the bride), the first dance if you don’t have something picked out, music to listen to while you are leaving and for your wedding party to walk down the aisle too. The best part though is that they break them out into individual cds for you as well so you don’t have to guess what is the right song for the right person. The only words of advice I have for picking your music though is to pick what you and your partner want to listen to and have at your wedding and not listen to others. It is your big day and you need to make it so that you hear what you want to hear and you hear the music at your wedding that you will want to hear everytime you want to watch your wedding videos again and again for the rest of your life. One thing you will always remember is your wedding music so that is why it is important to pick the songs that you love and not worry about what other people think.
- Your first dance – This one you can do traditional or you can have a dj or buy a computer program to remix a funny song and do a funny and memorable dance with your partner to surprise your guests. I love both ideas and no matter what you do your guests will love it.
- The march down the aisle for the wedding party- For this music, pick something that not only brings out emotion and makes people smile, but pick something not too happy and not down or slow and make sure it is about love or makes you think love and excitement. Think of mideval times and make it so everyone gets excited for the wedding couple and makes them want to cry during the wedding ceremony.
- The march down the aisle for the bride - Pick something that makes people emotional like Canon or something that is unique or stands out. Use something with bells or something that has a clear tune and make sure it is pretty, full or empty and no where near in the middle like a normal song. You want to bring out everyone’s emotions and get everyone crying.
- Mother and Son Dance – Pick something slow, stay away from waltzes and using anything about romance. Slow songs and sings about mothers or even showtunes and classical music without words are perfect for this.
- Father and Daughter Dance – This is perfect for Frank Sinatra Ballads or even anything about Fathers and Daughters. This is a song for the Father to give his daughter away so make it about love and protection and let him be emotional and not too fast. Perfect for slow songs and slow dances.
- The song for the Parents of the Bride and Parents of the Groom to dance too. Depending on their age and if they know how to dance, pick a waltz or a slow song or even if you want to get everyone dancing right after, get them to learn how to swing dance and make it fun. You could even have them change partners during the dance. You can actually let them pick their own music for this one too since they are the ones who will have to be the ones dancing lol.
- Then the song for you to exit your wedding to head to your honeymoon or leave for the night.
Anyways, I love picking out wedding music and companies like T Carter Wedding Music. Click any of the links in this post and you will be taken to T Carter Wedding Music and be able to buy cds with wedding music for you by theme and buy dance so that you don’t have to do any work. Just listen to the cds and pick the perfect songs for your perfect wedding.


























































