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June 14, 2010

DC Gay Pride 2010 – What Worked It and What Didn’t

Filed under: gay travel — Tags: , , — rollerbladerdc @ 9:47 pm
capital building gay pride

capital building gay pride

This year gay pride was all about one thing, the Diva.  In a year where people who do not deserve to be a Diva, yet, like Lea Michele (I love Glee but after her interviews at the Tony’s and the Glee article in US Weekly, I am kind of getting over her and think that although she has the makings of a Diva and an absolutely amazing talent (I love her voice and acting) she needs to be successful for at least a few more years and in multiple venues before she should have the attitude the press portrays and get to steal the spotlight from others.  Then again that is just my opinion and only based on articles I have read since I have never met her.  She definitely does have an amazing voice and more talent than almost any other new star out there on broadway so in a few years, give the attitude and work the Diva status, but for now be friendly and work the crowds to earn it.) and people that do like Lady Gaga and Madonna, where everyone is impersonating them and wants to be them, DC made one thing clear.  This year is about the Diva.

Pride started with shows from groups like the Dc Gay Men’s Chorus who did a Diva’s Show and their pride parade float was anything less than spectacular.  Different Diva impersonators and I think they were actually singing the songs.  I have to give a special shout out to the Diva who was playing Lady Gaga and wore the bubble dress on the Gay Men’s Chorus float, you looked fabulous.

dc gay pride parade drag queens

dc gay pride parade drag queens

The parties started a week before last Sunday and every bar and club had their contests and awarded decorated their queens.  The Ms. and Mr. Capital pride pageants were held at Town Danceboutique in the U street corridor a few days before the festivals started and competition was crazy.   There was so much to do this year and way to many things to talk about so I figured I would only share some highlights from Washington DC Gay Pride 2010 with you all.

The week was normal.  I went to karaoke, had some drinks with friends and prepped for Pride.  Friday night was insane.  EFN lounge and the Motley bar were the places to go if you liked the bear crowd.  A couple of my friends convinced us all to go there and when we got to Motley Bar above EFN lounge in Washington DC, we found about 150 to 200 bears dancing.  They had free pizza, buy 1 get 1 any type of drink or pitcher special and the overall energy was amazing.  I can say though I thought I had gotten pregnant by walking through the crowd since there was “bearly” even any standing room.  After that we went out to JRs and the 17th street bars and everything was packed with people for pride.  I do have to say that although I hate Mova or whatever the heck they call themselves now, DJ Alyson Calagna did do a great job and her music pulled us in on our way to real gay bars that we would actually have fun at.

gay pride parade float wizard of oz

gay pride parade float wizard of oz

Saturday was the day of the Pride Parade.  I took it easy for the most part and did brunch with friends.  Wholefoods on P street was pumping out house music starting very early and from there to 17th street you could see floats being set up, flags being hung and everyone getting ready for the pride parade and parties.  After brunch we walked around and everywhere you looked there were flags, people setting up for parties to watch the parade and gay people out being tourists.  You could tell it was pride and everyone was having an amazing day and for a change actually being friendly and helpful, even to tourists.

When the parade started there were the normal Dykes on Bikes, gay police men marching, a few marching bands, all of the politicians and everyone else you expect to see in the Gay Pride Parade in Washington DC.  The nice thing about this year though was that there was a horse drawn well fargo wagon complete with a bull dog on top and a ton of corporate sponsored floats and groups.  It was nice to see DC catching up to cities like Chicago and NYC where companies sponsor and allow their employees to march.  The real stars of the DC Pride Parade though were the drag queens.

Not only is it weird to say that since every year my favorites are the DC Cowboys and the strip club floats, but the queens owned the parade this year.  The Gay Mens Chorus had the divas float and the clubs and restaurants had their queens on their own but nothing was more memorable for me than the Wizard of Oz float.  Not only do I love the Wizard of OZ but for some reason I just really fell in love with this float.  Some floats had confetti canons, others had smoke machines and singing, others had hot guys in almost no clothes dancing, but this one just stood out.

Now that night was packed no matter where you went.  Cobalt for a change was a night for the Lesbians but my friends and I went to Town Danceboutique to listen to Chris Cox who released a brand new dance song there with the artist in the DJ booth.  Although the song had a cute beat it just really killed the mood and the song actually kind of sucked, but luckily a show came on to not only bring the mood back up but actually get the crowd going again.  I cannot believe I just actually said that since I normally hate when a nightclub stops the dj for a show.

drag show at town danceboutique

drag show at town danceboutique

I don’t know the song that the drag queens performed but they had real women with them and professional dancers who I guess choreographed an actual dance routine.  The routine was flawless and the queens didn’t try to steal from each other or steal the spotlight.  Instead they all did their thing and their natural stage presence and talent started to shine through.  I didn’t really know them at first but I figured their names out from the show downstairs, Sha Quita Lee, Bnaka Deveraux and something that begins with a J.  Sha Quita you could tell can always perform.  She loves it and she can be on a stage.  The other girl whose name began with a J kind of flopped, but at least she could do the routine as it was choreographed, there just wasn’t anything amazing or special about her dancing or acting.  The real star though was Bnaka Deveraux.  Not only did Bnaka Deverauxget stuck in the back, but even though she was not always center stage everyone could see her and she stole the show.  She added her own small twists to the routine and she just flared.  Bnaka Deveraux really kicked some butt and close behind her but without the presence was Sha Quita Lee.  The hostess Lena Lett really did a great job selecting the talent for this years show and she should be proud as the crowd loved the performance.  Thank you Lena Lett.

Sunday is the normal Pride Festival.  This year was kind of different but the one thing that didn’t change was a diva on the stage.  The DC Cowboys made up their flop at the pride parade with an awesome routine, especially the Lady Gaga and pop diva mash up, but the real star was Inaya Day. Not only did Inaya Day perform all of her old hits from the late 90’s and early 2000’s but she also did an amazing cover of the song by Mousse T “I’m Horny”.  She got the crowd going and reminded us of what a Diva is and why she deserves the Diva title.  The show ended on a sour note with some country singer who came out.  She has a few hits but she really killed the mood and you could see people start pouring out as she came on stage and started singing.  She was talented but unfortunately not worth the hype.  I don’t care if she was on Oprah and Ellen, she was not a good choice to close out the show and the Radio Announcer who they stupidly gave a microphone to didn’t actually entertain and announce, instead he annoyed and caused us to leave.  All I heard was negative comments about him and the Country singer but then again, they probably didn’t think it through properly.  They should have put her on, then the DC Cowboys then Inaya Day.  Let pride end on a really high and high energy note with everyone singing and dancing and with a happy memory and energy.

DC Pride was a great time this year and if you have never been to Washington DC for Gay Pride, you should definitely check out Pride 2011 in Washington DC.  The clubs have national and international talent and the festivals are amazing.  DC always puts on a great pride festival and parade and it is one that you should not miss.  Check back on this blog again next spring for a full list or constantly updating list of events and things to do during DC Gay Pride 2011.

April 20, 2010

Cosmos for a Cure – Breast Cancer Cosmo Findraiser

Filed under: Non Wedding — Tags: , , — rollerbladerdc @ 12:42 pm

One thing that many people have noticed in the last few years is a huge separation between gay men and women and lesbians.  It seems like everyone is distancing themselves, bars are going men only or women only, etc…   It is sort of sad that there is a separation but at the same time it is nice to be in a gay bar and not have straight girls say, why do you have to be gay, can we make out, it’s so nice to not be hit on, and be treated like a human, not an anomaly.  The other thing that is changing is that not all gay charities are about AIDS anymore.  Although there is a huge battle to be fought with HIV AIDS and that is the first and foremost cause I fight for, then Animal Shelters and Abuse and then Breast Cancer.

A couple years ago I walked in the Susan G Komen 60 mile 3 day breast cancer walk and breast cancer research took on a whole new meaning.  Anyways, with that said, I got an invite from a gay male friend who decided that instead of doing an AIDS fundraiser, he was putting on a fundraiser for Breast Cancer research.  Because I thought it was awesome that he crossed a line and decided to do something great for women and not just lesbian women, as well as men since breast cancer can attack men to, I wanted to post the event here and invite anyone in DC to attend his Cosmos for a Cure Breast Cancer Research Fundraising event.

Not only do I love the name Cosmos for a Cure but how could you not love having a social event about Boobies, Babes and Pink Drinks for Breast Cancer.  If you’re in Washington DC this Thursday and want to have a Pink Cosmo and help raise some money to fight Breat Cancer, show up to the event.  This is sure to be a fabulous time.
This Thursday (April 22, 2010) from 5 p.m. until 9 p.m., Lima Restaurant and Lounge is hosting a happy hour to support breast cancer research. As part of the course requirements for my leadership class (last semester!!!), I am organizing the event, “Cosmos for the Cure,” and encourage each of you to stop in, drink pink and raise a glass in support those who are battling breast cancer. Proceeds from the event will go to the Avon Walk for Breast Cancer Research.

The obligation is minimal. A $10 donation is requested (not required) and also we’ve arranged for a special pink cosmo that will benefit this important cause.

Lima Lounge is located at 1401 K Street and in close proximity to the McPherson metro station on the blue and orange lines.

Please tell your friends and come support the event.

(Names and email addresses have been erased).

March 7, 2010

Doing the ring thing in DC

Filed under: Gay Marriage — Tags: , , — rollerbladerdc @ 12:08 am

So it was no surprise when we reported that gay Marriage and Gay Weddings were made legal here in the District of Columbia. Washington DC has almost always been a pretty liberal and progressive region of the United States. You get a ton of people moving here because of beliefs or ideas and those are usually pretty emotional and strong willed people and most of the time are opposed to something like fur, war, oppression, etc… so when you get a huge group of them together and they are mostly liberal. Then they all decide to actually move here and stay here, well not all but some of them are able to make it here, it isn’t actually a wonder that Gay Marriage was passed here in Washington, DC, it is more shocking that it took that long to pass gay marriage.

So anyways, even though I am not going to go on and on about gay Marriage being legal now in DC, mainly because I don’t think it is anything that is newsworthy since it was completely expected, I did want to congratulate all of the couples that were able to get their marriage licenses from the court house in downtown DC this past week and wish them all a fruitful and happy life.

For those of you wondering, Gay Marriage isn’t about being called marriage or married or even god or ruining religion for you, it is actually about protection and equal rights to health insurance, life insurance, death rights, parenting rights, social benefits, tax benefits, being recognized as a couple, hospital visitation rights, etc… Sure there is a ton of discrimination left in this world, but getting the right to marry and having the licenses actually handed out is a huge step forward.

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