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September 30, 2010

Wedding Angel Wings, Wedding Angel Wings Pin

This is one of the most heartfelt gifts for the bride to be.  This fabulous pearlized angel wings pin is elegantly presented  at the top of a real feather and is also attached to a heavy stock card that comes complete with a fabulous and heartfelt poem printed on it. The angel wings are able to be pinned into the bride’s bouquet or you can even pin them inside the hem of the Bride’s gown as a reminder of the days blessings and as the something new.  This is the perfect gift for the Bride from the Mother in Law.

Not only did I instantly fall in love with this but it stood out to me as the perfect accessory and gift for the bride.  One thing that Mother in Laws always struggle with is what they should buy the bride for their wedding?  The Mother of the Bride always or at least most of the time gives her family heirlooms and something borrowed and something blue, but I think that the Wedding Angel Wings pin from My Spiritual Wedding not only gives the Mother in Law the perfect chance to pitch in with something new (If the Mother of the Bride is ok with that), but the wedding angel wings pin is the perfect gift for her to give to her new Daughter in Law since it doesn’t have to be worn with the bride but can be placed inside the bouquet.

It is the perfect way for the Mother in Law to not only show the Bride that she loves and accepts her but it also lets the Bride know that she has her blessing to Marry her Son or Daughter and in Good Health and Good Faith.  Angels are supposed to be able to look over and watch over and protect you and by the Mother in Law giving the bride the Wedding Angel Wings she is not only able to say this but able to do it in a meaningful way that will speaks more than words can to the Bride.  There is nothing like the approval of the Mother in Law to marry her Son or Daughter and the Wedding Angel Wings Pin is the perfect way.

The Wedding Angel Wings Pin comes complete and ready to wear or place in the Bride’s bouquet, with a poem and rests on top of an actual feather.  My Spiritual Weddings not only brings love into the Wedding but with their products like the Wedding Angel Wings Pin you cannot go wrong with them.  I personally love the Wedding Angel Wings Pin as a gift for the Bride from the Bride’s new Mother in Law and I know that any Bride would love the Wedding Angel Wings Pin and know that it was given as a gift from the heart.

September 24, 2010

Home Beer Micro Brewing Kits -Perfect Fall Wedding Gift

One thing that is a perfect fall wedding gift is a home beer micro brewing kits because not only is fall perfect for the season but you also have Oktoberfest, football season and fresh ingredients you can throw in like pumpkin and fall tastes.  Not only are fall beers some of the most well loved but when you give a groom or bride to be their own home microbrewing kit their eyes will light up when they realize how many fabulous fall flavors they can create.

A personal favorite fall flavor is a wheat beer with a hint of orange in it.  You can also do a european light styled beer with a hint of lime or other sour flavors and another personal favorite is a stout with a bit of either chocolate or mint in it or pumpkin flavors.  When you have your own home micro brewery kit you can make an almost endless list of beers and flavors and even though the bride or groom may not see how fabulous and perfect a home micro brewery kit is, when fall comes and they get to impress all of their friends with their very own beer, they’ll love the perfect fall wedding gift that you got them and you’ll love all of the fabulous beers that they brew at home when you visit and get to drink them.

Click on any of the images or links below to be taken to one of my personal favorite home beer micro brewing kit stores online where you will not only find all of the fabulous products below but a much larger selection of flavors, kits and gifts for your friends who are getting married.

Microbrewery Kit – $ 99.99

The Coopers Brewery home Micro brewery System is the world’s top selling beer brewing system for a good reason. This home micro brewery is designed to provide you with all you need to brew six gallons of your own high quality, all natural, great tasting beer every time.

Complete Real Ale Package The Entire Real Ale Package – $ 26.99

This fantastic package of Coopers Brewhouse home micro brewery mix contains a Real Ale beer kit, Coopers Brewing Sugar and Carbonation drops. A savings of $2.98 when purchased as a package.

Complete Stout Package Full Stout Package Complete Stout Package – $ 26.99

This package includes a Stout beer system, Coopers Brewing Sugar and Carbonation drops. You can also save $2.98 when you purchase this as a package.

European Lager European Lager European Lager – $ 18.99

Europe is home to numerous breweries and therefore, boasts a larger variety of beer variations than any other region in the world. The european union, being the birthplace of lager style beer, is regarded as the heartland of quality lager. Coopers European Lager captures the style of the very best quality lagers exported from Northern . Serve this fabulous beer well chilled in a tall, narrow stein with a generous head of 5cm or so and enjoy the herbaceous hop fragrance and crisp finish.

Draught Draught Mix – $ 17.99

Light yellow-gold colour with a tightly packed white head, flowery nose with a hint of malt, medium bodied palate with delicate hopping and a slightly bitter finish. Even the most discerning draught drinker will appreciate this beer.

Coopers PET Bottles - 15 Pk Coopers PET Bottles – 15 Pk – $ 17.99

Coopers PET bottles hold 740ml (25 ounces) and can be purchased in packages of 15. Each pack will bottle 3 gallons of beer. They are reusable, lightweight and shatterproof. This package also includes a set of 15 caps. We would like to mention that in order to bottle 1 batch of beer you need two boxes of bottles.

Wheat Malt Wheat Malt – $ 12.95
Either as the base for your favorite recipe, or when used with a Coopers Micro Brewery Beer Kit, The Coopers Brewery Unhopped Malt Extracts are not only manufactured with the best high quality barley, and created utilizing the same exacting specifications as all Coopers Brewery beers. When noted author Ray Daniels tested our Unhopped Malt Extract, he found it to be the most fermentable of all he analyzed tried.
Brewing Sugar Brewing Sugar – $ 6.99
Coopers Brewing Sugars (1kg) contains sucrose and maltodextrin. The sucrose will ferment out of the beer completely. Although the maltodextrin is not able to be fermented and remains in the produce, it actually helps to add to the body and to the head retention while not imparting any additional sweetness or flavors. This is a fabulous and simple way to improve all of your brews.

September 19, 2010

Men’s Fall Fashion, Men’s Fall Fashion Sale

The Top Fall Fashion Trends for Men.

I just have to say that I am going fall fashion crazy with Men’s Fashions.  Not only do I love what has come out for fall and how the lumberjack plaid look has dissapeared, but the color palats of mens fashions for fall are absolutely insane,,,,or as Rachel Zoe would say Banana’s.  Not only are darker colors and denim colors (not denim fabric) back in big time, but you also have metallics and metallic fabrics coming back in full force.  It is almost like emo meets fashionable with a main stream style.  Buckels and Studs and Straps are in for fall fashion and mens fashion this fall and you also have jackets, greens and some olive toned browns, greys and blues.  So what to wear and where can you find it at all price ranges.

I looked through he catalogs at Express and at Nordstroms, I checked out Sax 5th Avenue and I also looked at TJ Maxx and the one thing in common is the same looks and feels and colors.  The differences between them, besides the prices obviously, is the fabrics and the intricacy of the styles and stitches.  Express shocked me with a couple of their designs from a distance and in their catalog but unfortunately in person they were the same fabrics but just didn’t look or feel like the high end designers that they resembled.  The clothing there was absolutely on key with fall fashion for men and extremely affordable.  Instead of pulling clothes from a million sources for this post, I decided to go to an old favorite that everyone in Washington DC or Chicago Illinois knows and loves.

Universal Gear is a boutique clothing store for men.  Oddly enough, even though they hire a gorgeous staff and get some extremely good looking customers, I love shopping there because no matter what you look like or how you are dressed they treat you equally at Universal Gear.  The other thing that I love about Universal Gear is that they only carry Men’s Clothing and they always carry the most recent and fashion forward trends which means that you don’t have to sift or sort through hundreds of racks of women’s clothing just to find a small section of Men’s Clothes.  I love that Universal Gear carries Mens Fall Fashions and is not only reasonable in price but also fashion forward and because of their website UniversalGear.com, you can shop at their store even when you don’t live in a city with a retail location.  I fell in love with Universal Gear when I first moved to DC and was excited to find one when I moved to Chicago and thanks to UniversalGear.com everyone else who loves them can continue to shop for their fabulous lines of clothes and selections.  So here are my top Men’s Fall Fashion picks for the Fall season from Universal Gear.

andrew christian deep scoop neck tshirt

andrew christian deep scoop neck tshirt

The Andrew Christian Scoop Neck Tshirt for Men.  This fabulous deep scooped neck grey tshirt for men is not only a universal design that you can see similar versions of everywhere from Nordstroms to Macy’s and Express, but is also a classic look coming in from summer but with a fall design look and feel.  I can easily picture this under a bomber styled jacket or under some sort of vintage coat.  Perfect for men who have a larger chest or want to hide a bit of a stomach or fall weight, this is an absolutely fabulous tshirt for most men.  The thing I liked most about this Andrew Christian Deep Scoop Neck tshirt is that even people with round and oval faces were able to pull it off…it technically looked better on people with an ovular face but not bad at all for the people with round faces.

Ben Sherman Classic V Neck Mint Green Sweater

Ben Sherman Classic V Neck Mint Green Sweater

The Ben Sherman Mint Green Classic V Neck Sweater.  V Necks are back in big time for Men’s Fall Fashions.  We are seeing VNeck sweaters and tshirts everywhere and Ben Sherman V Neck Sweaters are taking over.  Ben Sherman Classic V Neck Sweaters come in everything from a fabulous dark blue to the mint green you can see here.  Another personal favorite Ben Sherman Classic Styled V Neck Sweater was the deep red or maroon color.  Not only are these perfect for wearing to work but you can easily wear them out walking and for casual wear as well.  Ben Sherman Classic V Neck Sweaters are the perfect early to mid fall sweater and if you live somewhere warm enough they are ideal for late fall…except for the mint which we may see coming back for winter.

Ben Sherman Chambray Western Woven Shirt

Ben Sherman Chambray Western Woven Shirt

One other Ben Sherman Shirt that I wanted to mention was his classic and vintage styled cowboy button down dress shirt.  It sort of reminds me of something my mom would wear except with its multi colored sleves and fantastic cuts, it is a modern and fun fashionable western wear for men for the fall.  If you have to go to a country western bar or a country night, this country western button down dress shirt from Ben Sherman is probably one of the perfect ones for you.  A couple years ago I found a fantastic pink and white one at Nordstroms from Seven Diamonds but unfortunately I haven’t found an appropriate occasion to wear it yet so make sure you know what you will do with or where you will wear this fabulous modern vintage styled country western cowboy button down dress shirt from Ben Sherman.

Deisel 55 Takeout Tshirt Longsleeves

Deisel 55 Takeout Tshirt Longsleeves

The Deisel 55 Longsleeve Takeout Tshirt.  This fabulous and classic styled long sleeve tshirt is nothing less than perfect from Deisel.  It carries over well for early fall and under a fall coat you can easily pull off this brown long sleeve tshirt.  I always love Deisel and when I was picking out shirts to review for this post, this long sleeve brown deisel 55 long sleeve brown tshirt definitely made it to the top of the list.  Wear it with grey or blue or any dark denim jeans and they’ll be perfect for clubbing or hanging out in a bar.  You can also probably see this shirt on yourself while walking through your city, the woods or even just to the store.  I love clothing that is universal enough to be worn whenever and the Deisel 55 Longsleeve brown tshirt is perfect for this. This is a must have long sleeve fall tshirt for men.

Fortunate Sun TDX Vneck Tshirt

Fortunate Sun TDX Vneck Tshirt

The Fortunate Sun TDX Brown Tshirt.  Although younger people would wear this brown tshirt by itself, if you are over 22 you will want to put it under something else like a zip down hoody, a cardigan or light indoor coat.  It has a youthful but sophisticated design and look but at the same time needs something more if you are over 22.  I don’t know if I would buy or wear this as it is not my style but I know that looks like these are not only always popular and in demand, but the color is perfect for many other fall lines so it is one of those shirts that will fit into your fall wardrobe easily.

Fred Perry Classic Green Polo

Fred Perry Classic Green Polo

Fred Perry Classic Green Vintage Polo.  Every season we see similar polos from every designer but for some reason I love this classic green polo shirt from Fred Perry.  Although Fred Perry is not as well known as other designers, his polo shirts are amazing for everyday wear, work wear and business casual.  You’ll also see his designs and styles showing up at clubs, lounges and bars everywhere in the fall since they carry over from work to fun for preppy and alternative people.  Match them with dark denim for fall or kahki pants for work, these fantastic mens polo shirts from Fred Perry are absolutely perfect and are absolutely Universal Gear for everyone.

Gstar Demin Battle Drill Bomber Jacket

Gstar Demin Battle Drill Bomber Jacket

The Gstar Battle Drill Bomber Jacket.  This bomber jacket from Gstar Demin is one of my absolute favorites from the fall line.  Not only does it work for preppy people but you’ll be able to see it on emos, punks, college students and just about everywhere.  You can dress it up or dress it down, accessorize it to match your own personal style or leave it how it is to just look great.  You cannot go wrong this fall with this amazing Gstar Battle Drill Bomber Jacket and you can find it at Universal Gear.  I love the Gstar Battle Drill Bomber Jacket and hope that you will to.  Buy them before they run out.

G Star Cole Cardigan Sweater

G Star Cole Cardigan Sweater

The Gstar Cole Cardigan Sweater.  Oddly enough my favorite clothes from Gstar usually don’t turn out to be denim.  Even though I am also not all about cardigan sweaters, this Gstar denim cardigan sweater jumped out at me as something that guys are going to love for fall.  Not only does it have a great cut, but you can wear practically anything from patterns to solids below.  Dress it up with a tie or down with a torn tshirt to go alternative, this Gstar cardigan sweater is absolutely perfect for men for the fall…especially if you want to try to pull off the nerdy or studious looks.

Levis Coated Scraped 54 Jeans Slim Fit

Levis Coated Scraped 54 Jeans Slim Fit

The Levis Coated Scraped 54 Denim Jeans.  Although I absolutely love the wash and the fade on the straight legged jeans, I can never get over the thread colors that Levis uses on their designer lines.  I did find myself wearing and loving a pair of Voi jeans from London with a similar colored thread and because they became my favorite jeans on earth I am giving Levis a chance this fall.  The wash and the cut on these Levis Coated Scraped 54 straight cut jeans is absolutely amazing and becaus the stitching does sort of work into fall colors they are an ideal darker jean to match everything from button down shirts to polos and especially tshirts.  I can also see these Levis Coated Scraped 54 Jeans matching the bomber jackets and hoodies perfectly.  Wear them with just about anything and you’ll look fabulous all fall long and even into winter.

Life After Denim Stadium Cardigan

Life After Denim Stadium Cardigan

Life After Denim Stadium Cardigan.  The Life After Denim Stadium Cardigan is a classic cut but more modern styled cardigan.  Unlike the Gstar cardigan it has a lower cut like Mr Rogers but a modern style and color pallette so that it is appropriate for more fashionable and younger people.  I could easily see this as an overcoat for early fall or for people who like the vintage look.  Pair it with a silver or steel bracelet or watch and decorate it for whatever fashion trend you fall into.

Penguin Vintage Mesh Polo Shirt in Blue

Penguin Vintage Mesh Polo Shirt in Blue

The Vintage Penguin Navy Blue Pullover.  Ok, if there is one designer that has my heart each year it is Penguin Brand Clothing.  They make my favorite polos and pullovers and this year they came out with a million Penguin Brand Polo shirts that I cannot live without.  This classic Navy Blue Penguin Polo Shirt is absolutely amazing for fall.  It is not only vintage styled but it can be work with kahkis to the beach or river parties and evening events or with dark denim to go to clubs and bars in.  You can wear it to work and even style it with an overcoat.  I love the preppy look and this classic dark navy blue Penguin Brand Polo shirt is absolutely perfect for everything and every occasion.  It is definitely a piece of clothing that could be universal gear since it can be worn just about anywhere.

Rock and Republic Threat Straight Leg Jeans

Rock and Republic Threat Straight Leg Jeans

Rock and Republic Threat Straight Leg Jeans.  These jeans look like leather pants in the photo and they are nothing short of amazing.  They scream mens fall fashion and I cannot think about anyone passing them by…you have to see them in person to understand how amazing these Rock and Republic Threat Straight Leg Jeans actually are.  They not only match every fall outfit listed here but they are amazingly fashionable and a must have in every man’s fall and winter wardrobe.  These Rock and Republic Threat Straight Leg Jeans are the go to jeans for when you need to look perfect, modern and fashionable and are a pair of jeans that you absolutely need to have.

Seven Standard Rebourn Straight Leg Jeans

Seven Standard Rebourn Straight Leg Jeans

Seven Standard Rebourn Straight Leg Jeans.  No fall mens fashion line up would be complete without something from Seven or from 7 diamonds so here are a pair of jeans from Seven that are not only great for casual wear year round but they can match most of the mens fall fashions and trends.  I personally love these Seven Standard Rebourn Straight Leg Jeans but unfortunately I already bought a few new pairs of jeans so I had to leave these off my fall wardrobe list this year.  If you have the extra room in your closet or on your list you need to buy these seven standard rebourn straight leg jeans.

Fall fashion is about darker and vintage but more modern classic looks colors and styles.  If you go down to middle america or high fashion you’ll see more punk and emo looks.  If you go to upper middle america and conservative or preppy looks you’ll see solid colors but also dark and metallic shades.  You’ll see lots of layers with Men’s Fall Fashion this year and jeans are dress jeans are back big time.  I love the Men’s Fall Fashion this year and know that you are going to go crazy for it and love it too.  You can buy all of these Men’s Fall Fashions at UniversalGear.com by clicking on this link.

September 18, 2010

Preparing for Passion on your Honeymoon. Things to remember.

So one of the most common gay honeymoon questions I get from readers and visitors is about how to make the honeymoon night go off without a hitch.  Everything from when to put on your sexy clothing to how to excuse yourself so you can clean out for a passionate night with your new Husband or Wife if you are a lesbian and into that.  So although this is not going to be the most fabulous post, it is one that many of you have written in about so I am going to share my opinions and some places and things that I have personally shopped for or used.

The thing is that when you are getting ready for your honeymoon or even for a night out and you know that you are planning on doing the deed, you also have to prepare for it.  Unfortunately on your honeymoon you may not have time to dig through a suitcase to find your outfits or even to take the 20 minutes to flush yourself out before you get ready for sex.   It is also seriously not attractive to say, “Hey baby, give me 20 minutes to freshen up” when you are already in bed and starting to go at it or have just finished dinner because you are ready to go and the mood should be just perfect.  The worse part is that if you decide it is time to clean out and your partner is laying there, those twenty minutes become distracting and if you also have to find your underwear or set the mood, 20 minutes could turn into 2 hours and at that point, the passion has somewhat gone.  So what can you do to make your honeymoon night run a bit smoother?  Here are my top tips and ways to make your honeymoon run a lot smoother.

Put your man or woman to work!

If you need time to clean out or freshen up, there is no better way to gain those extra 5 minutes than asking your partner to open a bottle of wine, but before hand you need to hide the opener in the room somewhere so they have to spend a couple minutes looking.  You can also set out some candles but pick a scent you like and that your partner likes so that they spend an extra minute smelling them.   If you are at a hotel though, you may want to keep the candles away from your spouse and while you are out having dinner ask them to come in and spread the rose petals over your bed and light the candles so that you can walk into the room and have it ready for romance….just remember to tell the hotel staff not to leave a bottle opener or to unhide it.  Making your partner wait for the bottle opener to be delivered is also a great short time waster.

Pack your honeymoon night clothing in a separate bag and store it in the bathroom.

If you have bought a sexy outfit or have a sexy pair of underwear or costume to wear for your honeymoon night, you don’t want to have to dig through your suitcase to find it and you certainly do not want your partner to find it either.  What I recommend is that you hide your toys and outfit in a plastic bag before you pack your suitcase and then when you get to your hotel or wherever your honeymoon is, unpack the plastic bag and hide it somewhere in the bathroom so that when you go in to get ready for your partner, you have everything you need right there and you don’t have to dig through your suitcase or go to the room safe.  Have everything you need right there so that when your partner is finding the bottle opener, you can be changing into your honeymoon lingerie or boxers and getting your toys ready.  It saves time and keeps you in the mood.

Cleaning out for anal!

Colt Shower Shot Enema

Colt Shower Shot Enema

Ok here we go.  How to be able to be clean for your partner while also not killing the mood.  One thing that you have to remember is to clean yourself out before you have your first time with your new husband or wife as a married couple.  No one wants a mess and nothing is worse than not being clean when you are in the middle of making love.  The problem is that you also don’t want to kill the mood by having to take twenty minutes to clean out because that also kills the mood.  So what can you do and what can you use to ensure a clean and fabulous night of sex?  Before dinner, excuse yourself to take a shower.

When you go into the bathroom to shower, bring your plastic bag with your outfit and toys and your enema kit.  I do have to say that although something like a fleet enema or one of the big rubber ball enemas is normally ok for regular sex, this is your honeymoon and you want to not only be able to not have to make him work it in, but you also want to be as clean and fresh for as long as possible.  Fleet and regular ball enemas just do not do this…at least for me.  What I prefer is the Colt Shower Shot.  I actually have one and use it when I know I have to be clean for a long period of time.  The picture of mine is to the left.  Not only does the colt shower shot enema last for a long time and clean the heck out of you, but it also feels amazing…actually sometimes better than sex.  The cols shower shot enema has tiny holes all over so when you hook it up to your shower it sprays water in every direction and washes everything out almost instantly….not to mention it feels absolutely amazing and doesn’t hurt at all to get in.  I have never needed lube or to loosen up before using my Colt Shower Shot enema and always highly recommend it.  If you plan on starting your romance right after dinner and drinks, use the colt shower shot enema before you go out to dinner when you are “taking a shower and getting ready” and then after dinner since it takes a while for food to go through your body and because the colt shower shot enema cleans so well, you probably won’t have to worry about a thing for the rest of the night.  This is above and beyond one of my favorite things ever when it comes to sex and one of the best cleaning tools I have ever seen or used.

If you do these three things, your honeymoon night passions and sex should begin to go much more smoothly and you won’t have to worry as much about any nasty surprises coming out when you are ready for the finale.  Your honeymoon is supposed to be one of the most romantic nights of your lives together and one that you want to have go off without a hitch.  If you prepare ahead of time and plan out how to get everything done, you shouldn’t have to worry about anything going wrong on your honeymoon night within the bedroom.  If you have any other tips and tricks or ideas on how to make your honeymoon night go off smoother, please feel free to share them by leaving a comment below.  If you found this article useful then please feel free to tweet it out to your friends by clicking on the green tweet or retweet button at the top of the post.

September 17, 2010

The Difference between Gay Weddings and Straight Weddings is Emotions.

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There has to be a large difference between gay weddings and heterosexual marriages and if that’s the case, what is the difference?

To be honest that there is not a large difference between a gay wedding and a straight wedding. It is in the feelings powering the wedding. Regardless of wherever you go, if there is a gay wedding or a very heavily publicized gay wedding, there will be emotional baggage and not just good or happy, but a huge mix of emotions.

A wedding ceremony is a wedding ceremony. You have a happy set of lovers, friends and family members, a wedding band, cake and someone to bless their marriage. You have 2 individuals that firm up their passion for each other and declare that they will be alongside one another no matter what happens. Weddings are amazing and romantic and full of emotion. The family and friends cry, the happy couple, the brides and bride or the groom and groom are nervous, joyful and excited to begin their lives together and for the lgbt community it means a lot more than it does to the straight community for the reason that until recently, gays were not allowed to get married.

Due to the fact that gays were not allowed to get married, they were not able to have equal rights. They were not able to pay a visit to each other if one of them would end up in the hospital, get parental rights, have rights to the income and live the life that they built with their significant other if one passes away, etc… It was a horrible way to live understanding that if anything happened to the person you loved and spent your life with you could do nothing to help them and not even get to be there with their life partner if they would end up in the hospital or on their death bed. It was an absolutely horrible way to live and for that reason when certain States and the District of Columbia approved gay marriage making it legal, lgbt couples flocked to those states and to Washington DC.

Not only did the gay weddings bring in a nice economic burst for the states and for Washington DC, but gay marriage also brought a feeling of joy and celebration. When you have a community that was kept down for so long and then they are provided freedoms and equal rights, especially ones that involve one of the strongest emotions, love, then when they can finally have those same legal rights that everyone else had, the feeling is a lot more meaningful. A lot of women felt it when they got the right to vote, African American people felt it when they were freed from slavery and gay people are starting to get that same feeling of equality as gay marriage has become legal. That is why there is an extra sense of emotion and also tension when you are at a gay wedding ceremony vs. a straight wedding. It is the celebration not only of love, but also of equality. You do have to bear in mind that I mentioned there were mixed feelings as well.

You’ve still got many States and Commonwealth’s that do not allow gay marriage. There are also a ton of faith based groups that oppose gay marriage too because they think that god hates or discriminates against gays. The truth is that God is supposed to love everyone and make them in his/her own image. If this may be the case, why would he/she despise gays? Because of this unknown reason for loathing a community that never really did anything wrong, these religious groups create protests outside of some gay marriage ceremonies.

These types of protestors stand there with their posters and shout at the individuals who are going in to the gay wedding ceremony. Not only is it offensive but how would they like it if other people showed up and shouted over their ceremonies while they were getting married? The thing is that although gay men and women and gay couples are used to this sort of treatment, heterosexual people usually are not and they sometimes get upset by it. They may lash out at the protestors and they may yell back at them. The thing that they need to keep in mind is that this day isn’t about the protestors, it is about the happy couple and honoring them. If they don’t respond to the protestors and they proceed to feel happy and send out good feelings to the couple getting married, the protestors at some point give up and the only emotion you feel in the building is love and that is the most important and one of the most powerful ones out there.

I was looking at a few websites about gay weddings and they inspired me to write a post about what the actual difference between a gay wedding and a heterosexual wedding ceremony actually is. For me it is about the emotions involved in the two. Each are about love but one is also about the celebration of freedom and equal rights and to watch a couple or the Mother and Father of a couple who had to watch as their Son or Daughter that wasn’t able to marry one another be given the equal rights and be allowed to get married. Because of the equal rights, the emotions run even higher at a gay wedding and reception than they would at a traditional straight wedding ceremony.

September 15, 2010

The Best Groomsmen and Groom Gift ideas for Fall.

Fall wedding ceremonies are some of the most fabulous weddings around. You can easily use browns, reds and yellows for your wedding color themes and you can bring the outside back inside (reverse from summer time weddings) by using small gourds and other plants for décor. What I also love about Autumn Wedding ceremonies is that you have an entirely completely new selection of Groomsmen and Wedding presents that you can pick from and each one of these gifts are available and customizable from the Gay Wedding Gear advertisers. So what makes a Groom’s or Groomesmen’s gift a fall gift as opposed to other seasons, this is pretty easy.

In the fall you have things like Football Season, parties for holidays like Halloween and Thanksgiving, you have fall and autumn scents and colors like brown or cinnamon and maple syrup. The fall is back to school time and when people start switching from white wine to red wine, kids and university students start heading back to school and some people give up summertime diet plans and don’t mind putting on a little bit of weight since sweaters and jackets are back in style. Because all of these things are oriented towards the autumn, some gifts can make more sense for the fall and we wanted to take a minute to share some of our most loved fall Groomsmen and Grooms gifts.

So here are some of our top Groomsmen and Groom’s Gifts for Autumn.

Poker Sets. With autumn comes colder nights and more and more people begin to take their get-togethers indoors. With the indoor occasions and more people starting to hang out at home, a perfect fall Groomsmen Gift is a monogrammed poker set. They come in all sizes, materials and price ranges so there is guaranteed to be a perfect poker set for your budget and since you are giving it to your Groomsmen, you’ll also get the rewards of the gift because of poker night.

Individualized Beer Tankerds. Although not everyone drinks, one thing that goes hand in hand with autumn is beer. You have Octoberfest and typically people enjoy drinking a beer while they watch a game. ExecutiveGiftShoppe.com carries a massive assortment of beer tankerds that are engaveable and are usually perfect for fall Groomsmen and Grooms Gift Ideas.

The Vulcan or the Bucaneer All In One Tailgating Cooler with Grill. I really don’t think I will need to explain this one. One of the very best parts about attending a football game is the preparty in the parking lot just before the game where everyone tailgates. This multi functional tailgating cooler that comes complete with a bbq grill, cooking tools and everything you need for a perfect get together is the ideal Groomsmen gift or even for a gift for the Groom, provided that his spouse doesn’t mind the get-togethers at the football games.

Individualized Drink Coasters. To keep the partner happy when the Groom or Groomsmen have guests over, these personalized coasters come in a ton of styles and themes. Perfect for when the guests come back indoors during the fall when the nights get chilly and no-one wants to be outside on the porch. Choose from a huge assortment of styles and themes to match anybody’s home décor or furniture.

NFL Sports Team Presents. With Football season underway in the autumn, why not give your best friends and Groomsmen monogrammed NFL themed gifts. Gay Wedding Gear Advertisers features everything from keychains to Zippo lighters, flasks to money holders and more. These are Perfect for fall groomsmen presents.

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September 10, 2010

Labor Day in Rehoboth Beach Delaware

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Poodle Beach Rehoboth Beach

Poodle Beach Rehoboth Beach

So Labor Day Weekend every year in Rehoboth is one of the biggest and most fabulous weekends to go to Gay Rehoboth Beach Delaware.  I always have a million emotions about Labor Day Weekend in Rehoboth Beach because it isn’t just one of the most popular and fun weekends in Rehoboth, but it is also the end of Summer and the end of party weekends and beach weekends with my friends.  I love it because it is the home to the biggest rehomo traditions like the Sundance Circuit Party in Rehoboth Beach as well as the famous Drag Volleyball game where you have two teams of non drag queens dressed in themes and acting out skits while also playing volleyball.  It really is an awesome show.  So with mixed emotions about Labor Day Weekend in Rehoboth Beach, I do have to say that if you are going to pick a weekend to go on vacation to Rehoboth Beach, Labor Day Weekend is the one to do.

This year was a bit off from most years.   Hurricane Earl was supposed to get rid of the beach and make it so no one could go.  Although many people did not end up going to Rehoboth, they were probably smart for listening to the weather forecast and the city telling them not to come, my friends and I automatically thought fabulous, no traffic, pool in the front yard, great reason to have cocktails and when the evacuation sirens go off, just add in a base beat and a few cocktails for an early morning happy hour.  To truth about the weekend though was that the hurricane did create a huge riptide and did wipe the beach away for a day, but after Thursday night and Friday

Farmers Market Rehoboth Beach Delaware

Farmers Market Rehoboth Beach Delaware

morning, it was a perfect weekend.

The weather was amazing and no straight people showed up.  The gays had Rehoboth Beach to themselves and we got to party our butts off.  No lines to get into any of the stores.  Minimal kids running around screaming.  No families gawking at gay couples walking down the beach and lots of fun for everyone.  With that said, there isn’t anything wrong with straight people, there is something wrong with the ones that come to Poodle Beach and create an issue though.  We don’t hang out on the straight beach and make a scene about them so they shouldn’t do that to us.  It was a nice change to not have any of them down on our beach and the ones that did show up were really cool.   Another thing that was a fun surprise was the Purple Parrot on Rehoboth Avenue.

The Purple Parrot Rehoboth Beach is a mixed restaurant and bar.  Everyone loves their food and the hot staff but what was really cool was that the Purple Parrot opened a huge beer garden with a full bar and small dance floor.  They have a ton of outdoor seating for everyone and tons of friendly people.  What I liked even more about the Purple Parrot was that they also had amazing drink specials.  We got way to trashed way to fast and spent under $20 per person.  That was really rare.  If you are

Sand Hippos

Sand Hippos

in Rehoboth you have to go to the Purple Parrot and visit their brand new beer garden.

Something that is sort of unique to Labor Day Weekend in Rehoboth Beach are the after parties and the overall atmosphere. People seem to be very standoffish but also ready to party and have fun.

Everyone knows that the Summer is now over and that there are no more amazing beach weekends until Memorial Day, with the exception of Winter Music Conference in Miami or a couple other small parties, and they are feeling the fact that they won’t get to see their friends or visit their beach houses again for almost an entire year.  Although it is a sad feeling and everyone is a bit moody, they also want to have an amazing time so they crowd the bars and even though people are more bitchy during Labor Day Weekend, they also want to have the most fun so after parties go later, drinks are poured stronger and people are also more relaxed so you don’t have to worry about if you will be allowed in or not.  Everyone is cranky but also in a good mood so if you wanted to talk to someone and had been afraid all Summer, Labor Day is perfect because even if they say no to you you have almost a year for them to forgot about it.  Another thing that was different in Rehoboth Beach this year and for Labor Day was The Double L.

Lesbian Bars Rehoboth Beach

Lesbian Bars Rehoboth Beach

The Double L was Rehoboth Beach’s only Leather Bar…besides Tea Dance at Zues.  The Double L was a mecca for leather men to party and shoot pool.  I decided to go there when my friends were heading from Aqua to Blue Moon since I wanted a break from the main strip and took a cab up to Double L.  When I got there there was a huge line and I noticed that they had changed the name to Man Dance.  Not only did they change the name to ManDance Rehoboth, but they also changed the entire inside of the bar.

Instead of pool tables and standing room up front they now have stripper boxes and loud blaring house music.  Instead of a pain in the ass bar layout and design to get through they have straight shots which make it easy to get to the dance floor and instead of a ton of lights they took almost all of them out in both the indoor club and outdoor space and replaced them with lasers and light machines for an excellent light show.  They still have all of the leather men and they added in a bathroom but they also added in probably the best dj and dance music in Rehoboth Beach and made Rehoboth Beach’s only dance club and leather bar in one.  You could technically say that Blue Moon is a dance club that is styled like a warehouse but the music is done by videos and they don’t actually mix anything.  Aqua has a dj and dancefloor but the DJ this year continuously trainwrecked and you cannot really dance since the shot guys and waiters are constantly bumping into you and the bathroom line wraps into the dance floor.

The Purple Parrot Rehoboth Beach

The Purple Parrot Rehoboth Beach

Labor Day Weekend in Rehoboth Beach Delaware is an amazing weekend.  The outlets have huge end of Summer sales and the restaurants are ready for your business.  Everyone is ready to party and you can do everything from circuit parties to drag volleyball.  You can shop for designer clothes on sale and even enjoy tons of fattening foods without having to worry about weight since summer is over.  Labor Day weekend in Rehoboth beach is one of the best beach weekends in the Summer and one that you have to do.  If you are looking for a beach weekend vacation for next year, Labor Day Weekend in Rehoboth Beach is the perfect one for you.

September 8, 2010

Waxing Poetic Pearl Jewelry – Perfect modern wedding pearls

So I found out that my one friend who works for one of my favorite wedding vendors had parted ways with them and it kind of started my day out on a bad note. On a good note though he ended up going to work for a website that I had never heard of before called Waxing Poetic.  I really didn’t get why I would promote or talk about a site called waxing poetic but I knew there had to be a reason that he would tell me to just take a look without saying another word or answering my questions.  Not only did I take a look at the site but I was instantly inspired….I didn’t realize how well he knew me and my tastes.

Waxing Poetic is a site that sells modern styled jewelry with a very classic and somewhat antique twist.  The first few products I found when searching the waxing poetic website were the pearl necklaces and pearl bracelets.  Not only do I love how they are sort of dark and sort of emo goth looking but they are also classic and extremely classy looking.  With the new lines of fall and winter wedding gowns coming out, I could only see these bracelets and necklaces being used.

The waxing poetic pearl jewelry is absolutely 100% perfect and amazing for fall and winter wedding jewelry.  It is thick, darker, classic and antique.  They blend into the outfits perfect and highlight your wedding bands and rings as well as your outfits and gowns.   They can be used for bridesmaids gifts but also for the actual bride.

You can buy the smaller or the bracelets with fewer strands for the bridesmaids and the fuller jewelry for the bride and even get the longer necklaces for the Mother of the bride or Mother of the grooms.  Either way this jewelry is an absolute must have for everyone for their weddings.   If you look at almost any fall line or winter line, you are seeing dark colors, denim colors and the wedding gowns are using shadows and darker accents.  That is what makes the waxing poetic pearl jewelry absolutely perfect for just about any fall or winter wedding and because they have classic antique looks they will be in style and in fashion for just about every year in the future.

It is very rare to find jewelry that can last multiple seasons but I think that Waxing Poetic has found the way to solve that issue.  I love when people take antique and classic looks and make them modern, but also make them work and that is what Waxing poetic has done.  Although I have never shopped there and have no need to shop there right now, I do love their designs and highly recommend you check their store out.

Three ring pearl wedding necklace

Waxing Poetic Free Form Pearl Wrap Necklace – $ 250.00
There is just something I love about the three ring pearl necklaces for weddings.  They could mean anything from past, present and future all linked together to the two brides or two grooms or bride and groom becoming one with the white hoop in the middle or about a million other meanings.  This is one of my favorite more modern styled pearl necklaces and can easily accent a more modern or metallic wedding dress.

modern bridal pearl bracelet

Waxing Poetic Square Insignias 5 Chain Bracelet – $ 130.00
If you are an extremely modern bride or want something different for your bridesmaids, this amazing and gorgeous chain bracelet is the perfect way to make a statement and compliment your wedding gown or your bridesmaids wedding gowns.  There is just something I love about this, its like Tiffany’s meets alternative or punk rock.  I personally love this for an extremely edgy and modern bride, but then again it may also be hard to pull off if you don’t pick the right dress or accessories to match and make it blend and mesh in.

silver rings pearl wedding necklace

Waxing Poetic Free Form Pearl Necklace – $ 125.00
This is one of the most classic styles of pearl wedding necklaces for brides that need something old fashioned yet modern.  I love the three ring pearl necklaces and although they are not for everyone, if you are someone who liked classic looks with modern twists then these three ring pearl wedding necklaces are perfect for you.  I love these necklaces and love that you can create your own story as to what the rings mean and why you are wearing them.  If you don’t like this one then click the link above or the image to the left and go to Waxing Poetic where you can see their full line of three ring pearl wedding necklaces.  I absolutely love their website and their jewelry.

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