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So something that people are always honored to get to do, but then when reality kicks in and the person realizes they are not prepared or that it really takes a bit of skill to do is is deliver a wedding speech.  Whether you prepare it the same day you are asked to make the wedding speech or you forget to write it and all of the sudden the wedding is tomorrow, there is another solution.

I came across a site and have been talking to the Marketing Department of a company called Instant Wedding Toasts.  Instant Wedding Toasts features tons of wedding speeches available instantly and last minute for those of us who forget to write our own or get stuck with writers  block.

I know that when I have had to write best man wedding speeches and I do them to early I 1.  Miss out on important and really funny things to rip the bride and groom apart with and 2.  Always second and triple guess what I wrote for the couple so I always recommend that if you are giving a best man wedding speech or Best Man wedding toast to the bride and groom you don’t do it too early so you can include all those last minute embarrassing and funny stories but you also don’t second guess what you were going to or wanted to say and end up scrapping the entire best man wedding speech.

Now if you have writers block and need some ideas, or just forgot to write a best man wedding toast to the bride and groom, groom and groom or bride and bride, then this is where Instant Wedding Toasts comes in handy.  Not only can you get ideas for last minute wedding speeches and prewritten wedding speeches for the best man, but you can also use them as a template for your own best man wedding speeches and toasts.

Here is a sample best man wedding speech to the bride and groom from Instant Wedding Toasts:

Toast to Bride & Groom From Best Man
May you have enough happiness to keep you sweet,
Enough trials to keep you strong,
Enough sorrow to keep you human,
Enough hope to keep you happy,
Enough failure to keep you humble,
Enough success to keep you eager,
Enough friends to give you comfort,
Enough faith and courage in yourself, your business, and your country to banish depression,
Enough wealth to meet your needs,
Enough determination to make each day a better day than yesterday.

And if you are anything like me and want to add some humor in, I would put in Enough Sex to Keep you Together then wink at some random person in the crowd.  I personally think every best man speech and best man toast needs to have something funny in their speech and everyone expects it anyways since you are the Groom’s best friend normally.  You can also tease and say Enough Man or Enough Woman, ohh wait you Married “insert bride or grooms name here” so obviously there is never enough.  lol.

Here is another example or sample best man wedding speech from Instant Wedding Toasts:

Example Speech Best Man

I want to start by saying what an honor it was when Frankie asked me to be his best man. Which now also gives me the opportunity to toast two of my most favorite people in the world. But also, as a result of his mistake, I’ve got a microphone in my hand!

But before I begin telling you even more about Frankie, I would like to say a few words about the lovely bride. Lindsay, you look absolutely beautiful today. Since meeting you a few years ago it is clear to me why Frankie has fallen in love with you. You have a wonderful personality, a great sense of humor and a huge heart. It is an honor to be welcoming such a special person into our family.

I was actually having some trouble when I started to write this speech. I was drawing a blank on memories I had with Frankie. To be honest, I can’t remember half of them…and the other half I’m trying to forget!

Anyways, wedding speeches can be really hard to write and can be even worse to deliver.  There is even more pressure on the Best Man when he (or she if it is a Lesbian Wedding) has to give the best man’s wedding speech since they not only have to be funny, but also inviting warm and really keep everyone else under control.  If you need a last minute best mans wedding toast or ideas for a best mans wedding speech, Instant Wedding Toasts is a perfect place to begin looking for templates and ideas.  Click Here.