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January 22, 2012

All natural dead sea skin care acne products

Filed under: Non Wedding, make up — Tags: , , — rollerbladerdc @ 5:13 pm
dead sea acne face mask

dead sea acne face mask

I was recently in Vegas at a marketing, blogging and social media conference and I ran into a company called Natural Care.  Natural care is a company that only sells extremely high quality, all natural dead sea skin care products.  Although it was a little insulting to have the owner walk up and tell me my skin had issues, but when he gave me some free samples on what would fix them almost instantly I decided to use them to prove him wrong.

The first product he gave me was this dead sea face mask for acne.  The package was fairly large and held about 4 masks in it.  The mask is extremely dark green and smells a little funky, but I always love to try new skin care products, even though I have allergies to scents, so I opened it and also had a friend try it out.

When I first put it on it was a lot thicker than the masks I love from Mario Badescu.   Although I will never give up my love for the Mario Badescu Cucmber Tonic Mask and never stop using it, this other mask is a good contender to replace other products I had been using.  When I put the mask on it started to instantly tingle and somewhat burn in certain spots.  That’s when I realized that this is a mask that can also help to treat acne and the spots that were burning a little bit (not in a bad way but a way that you know something is happening) were exactly where I was having issues with acne.  It shocked me at first to feel the burning because I wasn’t expecting it but when I remember that it could be used to help acne, I was ok with it.  It’s kind of funny how these dead sea acne face masks can act so differently on so many different people because my friend felt no stinging whatsoever.  Then again, he had clear skin already.

When I took the mask off my face didn’t feel much different and I couldn’t see any immediate difference, unlike my Mario Badescu masks, however the next day my acne had pretty much disappeared.  I didn’t notice by that evening it was much less visible, but not completely gone.  The next day, my face was clear and when I used it a second time, my face was compeltely clear on the third day.  It was amazing.

Although I will never give up certain mario badescu products, if I ever need to clear my face quickly and with something that doesn’t affect my skin with scents and perfumes, I will be using the Natural Care all natural dead sea acne face masks instead of the products I used to use.  I highly recommend them and if you want to see their entire line, visit NaturalCare.net.

September 28, 2011

Thank You Cards for Gay Weddings on Sale

One thing that I absolutely love is to help choose thank you cards for gay weddings.  To be honest, I love choosing them for everyone because unlike most things in modern times, there is nothing like getting a hand written card to really help your guests feel appreciated.  There is something about a hand written card that makes it feel like it came from the heart.  It is that final personal touch which is why I love them and love helping people pick out thank you cards for gay weddings and every other event.  One thing that some people think is that they should match your gay wedding invitations, but that is not always necessary.

The truth is that many people will have forgotten about the original invitation and the design and as long as you have a wedding themed or styled thank you card, you should be fine.  Here is how I choose my thank you cards for gay weddings and what you may want to look for in yours.  You can also click on any of the thank you cards below and you’ll be taken to one of my favorite shops where they have hundreds of styles of thank you cards for gay weddings, birthdays and every other event you need them for.

Here is what to look  for in Thank You Cards for Weddings.

  • Choose white colors.
  • Heavy paper around 110lbs.
  • They should match or be similar to your colors if you choose color.
  • They should be something that resembles you and your partner.
  • If you had a theme in your wedding, find one with something similar to the theme or decoration.

Champagne flute wedding thank you cards

Price: 2.59This card is perfect if your wedding is around the holidays.  Not only are champagne flutes ideal for weddings, but they are also themed for the holidays.  I absolutely love this card and it leaves tons of room for you to write whatever you’d like as well as post a picture on it.

Peacock feather thank you cards for the holidays and holiday weddings

Price: 2.59This one is a bit different.  It features two peacock feathers and sort of screams holidays, trailer trash and can also be classy if you put the right words on them to say thank you.  The card is extremely versatile and perfect for holiday weddings.

Thank you cards for winter weddings

Price: 2.79This is a folded card that is perfect for winter weddings or even late winter weddings when the birds are coming back and the snow is melting.  I actually don’t like this one, but that is only because it isn’t the type that I would buy for my own wedding.

Classy and modern thank you cards for gay weddings

Price: 2.59I absolutely love these cards.  If you can’t decide on the ones you like, then don’t buy those ones and go with this one.  It is simple, fun and also extremely classy.  Everyone will love them.

Goddy Thank You Cards

Price: 2.79If huge, goddy and overdone is your thing, then these cards are the perfect ones for you.  They are definitely not my style but I have a million friends who would love these for a ton of different events.

Fun thank you cards for parties and weddings.

Price: 2.79If you want a classic look and style with something super modern, these cards are the perfect cards for you.  I highly recommend them, especially for jewish couples and events because of the outline of the star.

The same as the previous card, but a different color.

Price: 2.79See the description from the card before this one.

Christmas thank you cards

Price: 2.59I’m not sure how this got here, but if you have to do thank you cards for wedding and Christmas presents then these are the perfect cards to use to get both done at once.

A fun and modern informal thank you card

Price: 2.59These are the perfect cards for an informal wedding.  They may look cheesy, but they are actually pretty nice and perfect for the couples who don’t like getting dressed up and like everything casual.

Elegant and classy thank you cards

Price: 2.59These elegant scroll gay wedding thank you cards are perfect for almost any couple.  Not only are they gorgeous to look at, but people will love getting them in the mail.  You cannot go wrong with using these cards to say thanks to your guests for coming or for their gifts.

Gay wedding thank you cards

Price: 2.59These cards are perfect for both your rehearsal dinner and for gifts or guests.  They have a great casual and elegant design and are extremely versatile as well.

Elegant rehearsal dinner thank you cards

Price: 2.59These are the same as the other cards on the left.  The only difference is the color on the bottom.

September 25, 2011

Customized toasting flutes sale. Best toasting flutes.

Toasting flutes may not seem that important, but they are something that you can use every time you have an anniversary, a way to remember how happy and how amazing everything was on the day of your wedding and one way that you can remember every time you use them to remember how much you loved each other. Toasting flutes are not only something that you will remember as the thing that made you officially together, but also something that you can enjoy and pass on to your kids so that they can be as happy as you and your partner are. I never really thought about how important your toasting flutes are for your wedding, but when you toast your wedding flutes together you will always remember how much you loved your partner and that is why they are so important to you. Here are some of my favorite customized toasting flutes which you can buy by clicking on any of the images or links.

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Customized toasting champagne flutes and service set

Price: 40.00You cannot beat the price on these amazing customized champagne toasting flutes which also come with a service set.  You can use the flutes on anniversaries and also keep the serving set to use on your 10th and even 50th wedding anniversary to serve your cake and remember your wedding day.

Engraved champagne flutes with serving vase.

Price: 38.00You can’t beat this price for these custom engraved champagne flutes.  Not only do you get a service vase to use that you can decorate and light up, but they will look amazing on your anniversary and really help you get the night off to a fun start when you remember your wedding day.  The vase is hard to store, but it is worth it to be able to remember your wedding day when you are using the toasting flutes on your anniversary.

Diamond Wedding Flutes and Cake Server Set

Price: 33.00

I personally do not like these custom engraved champagne flutes and service set.  It isn’t the design, it is just that it isn’t something that I would buy because I like things a bit more modern.  They are perfect though if you are having a traditional and classic wedding.  You also cannot beat the price on these customer engraved champagne flutes on sale, because of the low price, and serving set.


Brushed Silver Rhinestone Champagne Flutes and Cake Server Set

Price: 45.00

My only issue with these gorgeous engraved champagne toasting flutes is that they look like high end and classy brunch champagne flutes.  They are modern, but they also look like something you would use at a nice brunch which could take away from your anniversary and when you are using them to celebrate it could take away from it.


Personalized Champagne Flute Wedding Favor

Price: 3.50

Ok I hate these.  Don’t buy them or use them, unless you are having a 1980’s or retro themed wedding.


Personalized Plastic Champagne Flutes

Price: 4.00

I hate these ones as well.  They are affordable for the wedding party but really tacky and ugly.  You are better off with a cheaper one that looks classy.


Gold Champagne Flutes and Cake Server Set

Price: 60.00

If you are doing a Caribbean wedding or gold is one of your wedding colors than these are absolutely perfect.  If it is not then I don’t recommend these engraved gold champagne toasting flutes.


Personalized Crystal Studded Toasting Flutes

Price: 45.95

These custom engraved toasting flutes are perfect for the classic wedding or classic romantic wedding.  They have an amazing shape, color and are perfect.  I absolutely love them.


Personalized Trumpet Wedding Toasting Flutes

Price: 36.00

For some reason I don’t like the shape of these flutes.  They are a bit to 1970’s or modern for me.  they are nice though if you like them for your wedding.


Personalized Double Hearts Toasting Flutes

Price: 25.00

I don’t like these engraved champagne flutes because they look cheap and boring.  They are a classic design, but they are better for the guests than for your own toasting flutes for your wedding.


Personalized Classic Champagne Flutes and Cake Server Set

Price: 42.00

I hate this design as well, but lots of people do like them.  They aren’t horrible so if you like them for your wedding then they worth it for you, but they aren’t ones that I would choose for mine.


Personalized Venice Toasting Flutes

Price: 89.95

I hate these glasses, but they are actually popular and gorgeous.  They just aren’t the type I would choose for my wedding, but if you like the color and the design then they are the perfect ones for you.  I like them for other people and if you like them then they are perfect for your wedding.

September 17, 2011

How do you know if you should break up with him?

Filed under: MyPartner.com, gay dating — Tags: , , — rollerbladerdc @ 1:38 pm

I’ve been having a few issues in my relationship lately. I just really feel alone all the time. Relationships, especially new ones are supposed to be exciting, make you feel full and in love. When they don’t then there is something wrong. You may feel like you are in love, and it hurts to think about not being with the other person, but if they aren’t giving off of the same amount of love or if you can’t feel it from them, then there is a serious disconnect. You could both be in love with each other, but if one of you isn’t ready for the relationship, the other person could be hurting and you wouldn’t even know about it. Here are a few things to think about if you are in a relationship and feeling alone. If you feel any of these things, then you may need to think about if it is the right time to be with that person.


When you get together, what is the greeting he gives you? Do you get a friendly kiss or an I’m in love with you kiss? Are his eyes closed or opened? Does he smile or show emotion? Does he give you a kiss like a friend and what is the hug like? These are all questions you need to ask yourself when you see each other. You also need to think about the way you greet him when you see him.

What does he do when you are visiting him? If you haven’t seen him for a few days or a week, does he cuddle with you or sit with you? Does he hold your hand or put his arm around you? If you are watching tv, is he watching with you or playing on his computer? Does he stay in the same room with you? Does he play with something or look through a collection or pay attention to other things?

Before bed and in the morning, what does he do? If he has a pet, does he give the pet more attention than you? Does the dog or cat get a bigger hug, told they are loved and a huge kiss? What do you get compared to it? In the morning, are you greeted with at least the same type of hug or attention as the dog or cat? How does he say good morning and good night to you? If he hugs the dog when getting out of bed, does he also give you a hug or a small kiss?

What does he do in bed? Does he cuddle with you and if he does for how long? If he used to cuddle with you, does he still? Is he near you in bed or does he stay against the very edge? If you try to cuddle, does he let you for a bit or does he constantly pull away? If he pulls away, is it every night or just every once in a while?

Does he have sex with you? Does he let you have sex with him when you want to? Does he push for sex with you? Does he treat sex like its a chore or something he has to do or is it something he is enjoying? Does he seem like he wants sex with you? Does he enjoy it and want to shower with you, hold you, or give you attention after?

New relationships are supposed to be exciting and you are supposed to be in love. You need to ask yourself all of these questions. You also need to think about if he is ready for a relationship. Sometimes he may be in love with you, but he isn’t ready to be in a relationship. Just because he isn’t ready for a relationship now, that doesn’t mean you he won’t be ready later on. If you are always feeling alone because your partner isn’t ready, there is no point in making yourself miserable. Being miserable, but in love, isn’t a good type of love at all. It is hard to break up with someone, but sometimes you have to because its the right thing to do for yourself. It doesn’t mean you don’t love the person, it just means you have to make sure that you are also ok and that you are doing what is right for you. When the person is finally ready to be in love with you, or to be in a relationship with you, you may still be available and then you can start again and get married. Until then you should enjoy life and never feel alone, especially if you are in a relationship with someone you love.

September 9, 2011

Rehoboth Beach Drag Queen Volleyball 2011 Videos

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An annual tradition in Rehoboth Beach Delaware each labor day is drag queen volleyball. This year team Angry Birds took on team The Von Tramp Family singers from The Sound of Music. Not only did each team creatively perform their characters perfectly, but they also had everyone laughing their ass off. Not only is drag queen volleyball the perfect way to end the summer, but drag queen volleyball in rehoboth beach has become a tradition that tons of people look forward to watching each year.

This year the game started out with the ref running around getting everyone excited for the first team to come down to the court. When they started playing the theme music for the first team, all you could see were 4 hot guys carrying a giant egg. Everyone thought it would be the egg from lady gaga, especially because they were playing lady gaga, but instead it ended up being team Angry Birds.

Team Angry birds started out by coming out from under the giant egg and running around like a bunch of chickens and acting like birds. Then they quickly broke out and did the chicken dance and turned that into a fun audience participation song. Right after they went from doing the chicken dance into having a pig appear and a dance remix of the angry birds theme song. Then after they did a kickline, they somehow had the energy to complete an entire cheerleading pyramid lift, do carthweels and even throw glitter eggs into the crowd. It was an awesome show. After team Angry Birds finished, they went to their side of the court and let the next team come down. The competing team was The Family Von Tramp from Salzburg Austria.

If you remember the Sound of Music, you’ll remember the Von Tramp Family singers…well not Von Tramp but this is the drag queen volleyball game in Rehoboth Beach. The Von Tramp Family Singers came in and introduced themselves but soon realized they were missing one of the most popular characters from the show, Fraulein Maria. Watch the video below to see where Maria appear and learn what really happened to all of the Von Tramp Family singers.

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The annual Rehoboth Beach Drag Queen Volleyball game was seriously fun. Not only did we all have a great time, but the Rehoboth Beach Drag Queen Volleyball videos I took actually came out pretty good. I haven’t watched the whole thing yet, but will soon. Anyways, if you are looking for a new gay beach town to visit next year, try Rehoboth Beach Delaware for Labor Day. It is a great gay beach town and a ton of fun.

August 29, 2011

Cheating, is it ok and is it cheating if you are not together?

Filed under: gay dating — Tags: , , — rollerbladerdc @ 11:54 pm

So one thing that is always confusing is cheating.  I’m not talking about going around and sleeping with a ton of people on a regular basis, that is grounds for definitely being dumped.  What I’m referring to is if you are just starting to date someone and you are sort of only seeing each other, but nobody has said that it is officially monogamous.  (BTW, this is not about me and my new relationship, this is from an email from a reader who wanted to know my opinion.)  The other thing I am talking about is if your partner screws up and hooks up with someone.  I cannot answer for everyone or even anyone else, but if it were my relationship, here is what I would do.

Is it cheating if you are not officially together?

If you have to ask then you already know the answer.  If you feel guilty that you kissed, made out or even slept with someone besides the person you are dating or seeing, you probably cheated.  It means that you really like the person you are seeing and that you obviously screwed up.  Think about it, if you didn’t feel guilty then you wouldn’t be asking this question.  If you’re the person who is on the other side and found out the other person is hooking up with others, then it is your job to address it and make it either officially monogamous or realize that they are not the right one for you because they still want to sleep with others.

The thing about new relationships and new love is that you shouldn’t even have the desire to sleep with others.  If you do then you may not have true love, but you may have short term lust which can feel like the same thing.  If you hookup with someone because you were drunk and you feel guilty, then in my opinion you cheated because you did actually like the person you are dating.

If you feel guilty then talk to the person you’re dating and make it official.  If you find him or her dating others and it bothers you and makes you feel like they are cheating, let them know you are ready for the next step.  If you are ready to commit and they aren’t, there is no reason to put yourself through paranoia or those horrible feelings of knowing the person you like is with someone else and I would recommend you end the relationship.  If for some reason they are ready in the future and you think that you can love them again, you can always give it another try.

What should I do if I cheated on my partner? What should I do if I found out my partner cheated?

This is a tricky one.  Here is the answer from my perspective.  If my partner cheats, I want him to call me just before it happens or right after.  I want to know that he did it so that he is honest with me and if he used a condom, swallowed or did anything that could put me and my health in danger.  I’m not going to dump him if he is honest with me and tells me, no matter how bad the f*ck up is, but he is definitely going to have to buy flowers, possibly jewelry and is definitely going to have to make it up with a nice dinner and tons of footrubs.  It hurts to get cheated on, but if it is a one time thing and your partner is honest then forgive them, but also make them make it up to you.  Now if you cheated that is another story.

The best thing for cheating in a relationship is honesty.  You need to be honest and you need to tell your partner.  You also need to use a condom if you can remember or get tested immediately after.  You screwed up and it happens.  It sucks because you hurt your partner who is someone you love, but that doesn’t mean you have to end your relationship.  Be honest and tell them before they find out on their own.  There is nothing worse than going home pretending nothing happened and having the person you love find out on their own.  Do me and your partner a favor, call them immediately, rush home or somehow let them know.  You are the one who cheated on them and you need to grow a pair and admit to doing it.  It isn’t easy to do but it is the right thing to do.

I don’t agree with cheating at all.  I think you should only sleep with your partner.  That is why you are in a relationship.  If you don’t know if you are officially monogamous, ask your partner and let them know how you feel.  If you are in a relationship and you cheat, let your partner know.  They may hate you for a while, but if they truly loved you and you really feel bad about it, they will eventually forgive you.

August 28, 2011

How To Handle Getting Mixed Signals from Guys

Filed under: gay dating — Tags: , , — rollerbladerdc @ 4:30 pm

One thing that is the same for both straight and gay couples are mixed signals. They not only drive us both crazy, but they put some serious strains on relationships. One day everything is going smooth and you are falling in love. All of the sudden the next day the person springs something on you like “we should take it slower” or “Lets try to meet up later this week” but doesn’t give a reason why. Although there is nothing wrong with saying those things, mainly because sometimes you do need to slow down or maybe the person is just busy and has to get some things done, but what drives the other person crazy is when there is no explanation behind it.

I know that some people don’t talk much or like short answers. Unfortunately that is just some personality traits. The problem when you are dating someone that likes you is that when you don’t give an explanation as to why you want to slow down or why you would say “maybe” if they want to hang out, or “lets try later this week” is that their minds can start to wonder.

Everyone is a bit insecure, it’s part of being human. The issue is that when you slow a relationship down and the person was enjoying the pace it was going, you need to give them some details about why you want to slow it down and reassure them that you still enjoy them. If you don’t like to talk a lot or aren’t the type who likes to give reasons, you have to remember that the relationship is new and the person you are with may not be used to your personality type. Relationships are scary for everyone. You are letting someone new into your life. What you need to remember is that in order to not chase them away and to keep their interest, you have to let their insecurities rest and tell them that extra sentence like “Let’s try later this week because I have to catch up on a ton of missed work” or “Let’s take it slowly because we just met and I want to enjoy the dating and courting process instead of just jumping into marriage. Say things like “I really like you and don’t want to screw it up by moving to fast” or “We’ll see each other again this week and keep it going at a pace we can both enjoy”.

Mixed signals aren’t fun, especially when you are in a new relationship. If you are about to slow down a relationship with someone, but you still want to be with that person, make sure you do me and them a favor. Let the person know the reasons why.

If you tell them you want to slow down and then you cannot see them for a few days or a week, give a reasonable answer and not just a couple of words or just say its because you have work to do. Open up and share with him or her a bit to let their nerves relax. Explain the project you are working on or why it takes forever. (If you bore the person with work you may get lucky and they won’t ask again. Just a small hint if you don’t like sharing.) If you don’t help calm their own insecurities when you slow down a relationship or give a mixed signal, then when you are ready to speed the relationship up again and become more serious again, they may have already begun to move on.

Love is funny how it can hit you hard and then fade away without you even realizing it. One of the saddest things I can think of is two people who start falling in love, one gets scared so they slow it down and the other stays falling away faster and faster without knowing it. Eventually the person fades away because they were the only one really in love in the beginning and not always feeling it back because the other person was scared. Then when the other person is ready, they have begun to move on and it is hard to pull them back.

On the other hand, if you are saying you should take it slow to start the break up process, do yourself and the other person a favor and just let them know. It isn’t only wrong to lead people on, but it is also wrong to play with someone’s emotions. If you are giving mixed signals to someone, just let them know why and don’t be distant. Distance can kill a new relationship and put a damper on love, even if you aren’t that far away physically.

August 13, 2011

Laurell K Hamilton’s New Book Hit List Reviewed

Laurell K Hamilton new book Hit List

Laurell K Hamilton new book Hit List

So I found out that Laurell K Hamilton finally released her next book for Anita Blake called Hit List.  To be honest I was so tired of reading Laurel K Hamilton because it was like really bad and cheesy porn.  Sure the first few times it was hot, but then it was really bad and trashy in your face porn.  The entire trip with Jason was a waste of a book.  It almost caused me to stop reading her books altogether.  Luckily Laurell started to get back to what made everyone love her books in the first place, action, romance and tons of violence!  Because I was so tired of all of the porn books she wrote, I was almost hesitant to buy this book because of the cover, but luckily I ended up deciding to buy it anyways and I am seriously glad I did.

Hit List by Laurel K Hamilton is amazing.  It isn’t her best book but it brings back everything we love about her books.  It features Edward for the story and he brings along his bounty hunter bffs Olaf and Bernardo and the four of them get ready to finally take on the Harlequin and Marme Noir.  Just like when Laurell was with Edward in Santa Fe, she has to bring back everything she learned, including a couple of tricks she learned on her last work trip with Edward.

Hit List by Laurell K Hamilton is an incredible read.  She finally brought back everything you could want in her books and leaves you on a high note.  I don’t want to ruin the end, but it will be interesting to see how she creates her next version of the bad guy, if she brings back some of the ones who were never finished, if they take on one of their own (even though the person/thing may not be their own in their minds) or if she will create a brand new enemy.  Laurell K Hamilton’s new book Hit List is a must read.  There isn’t much sex and there is a ton of drama and violence which is what we all love about her and her series.  If you haven’t bought Hit List by Laurell K Hamilton, use the links from amazon in this post as it will be much cheaper than going to the store like I did.  Please also feel free to leave a comment below with your thoughts on the book.

August 8, 2011

3 signs he’s not ready for relationships because he married his career

Filed under: MyPartner.com, gay dating — Tags: , , — rollerbladerdc @ 10:31 pm

If you’ve been dating and it seems like you’re not having luck with getting someone to be ready for a monogamous relationship, you may not be the problem.  The problem may be that you aren’t paying attention to the signs that the other person is giving off.  the other person may think they want to find love and be in a relationship, but the reality is that they may not be.  One of the leading signs that the person isn’t ready for a real relationship or love is if they are work obsessed.  Sometimes the only true love a person has is their job and work.  It doesn’t mean the person doesn’t like you or think you’re attractive, it just means their real priorities are with their career now and not in finding love.  If this is the person you are dating, then maybe you need to look somewhere else, unless you always want to be second place.  Here are three signs that the person is not ready for a relationship because he is already in one with his career.

Cell phones at the table.

If you are on a date and he brings his phone and answers it on your date, he is not only being rude to you, but he is also showing that his job and work is more important.  If he was really ready to date and find love, he would make it so that he could have 1 or 2 hours without his phone.  Everyone can do it from Fortune 500 executives to real estate agents.  It doesn’t matter if they are important or an assistant, they need to put down the phone and get to know you.  If they can’t do that during a dinner then they cannot commit to you because they are committed to their phone and their work.

Canceling dates regularly.

It’s understandable to have to cancel a date if something comes up.  It happens where you need to work on a project late or you have to do something.  The problem is if there is always something coming up and your dates are always getting canceled.  Not only is it rude to do to you because it stops you from being able to have your own life, but it also messes up your schedule.  If he always has things coming up, then you need to make sure the next thing that comes up is a finger saying goodbye.

Showing up late.

This is absolutely unacceptable.  Everyone can make sure they have enough time to make it to a date.  Sure you can get stuck in traffic or get lost finding the place, but if you are always late because you had to finish something at the office, you are a little late to be able to date.  Think about it this way, if he is always late when you are just dating, what’s it going to be like when you are in a committed relationship or married?  You plan special nights and anniversaries and he is always late.  You plan a surprise for him but he doesn’t make it home on time.  If he is always late when you are dating then you are setting yourself up for him always being late if your dating turns into something more long term.

One of the biggest problems with dating someone that is married to their career is that you will always be second.  Even if he is cute, well off and you are in love with him, think about your future.  Do you really want to be second to his career?  Do you want to wait at home alone at night while he’s late and do you want him to be working while you were supposed to be spending quality time.  If you want love and you want a husband and not someone who you love but are always second to a career to, then look for these three things.  If he is doing them then he is already married and guess what, it isn’t to you.

August 7, 2011

Gay Weddings in Utah, Brandon & Seth Congrats

gay weddings utah

gay weddings utah

I’d like to give a huge congrats to one of the best and most beautiful big gay weddings in Utah.  It is for a couple that I met here in DC, Brandon and Seth.  Not only did they find a fabulous venue for a Utah gay wedding, but they turned it into a spectacular event for everyone.  Surprisingly enough, certain cities in Utah are actually extremely gay friendly like Salt Lake City and have a thriving gay scene.  That makes it much easier for Utah gay weddings to take place, you just have to make sure that you are able to keep the religious freaks out of it in case they organize a protest.  (That’s why I always recommend using a large open space or a building where you cannot hear outside noise in case you get the Mormons’ protesting).  Anyways, here are some of the photos and background on Brandon and Seth as well as information on planning a gay wedding in Utah.

Brandon and Seth met at a bar in Salt Lake City Utah.  There was a definitely a connection and I

gay wedding in utah

gay wedding in utah

blame Facebook for this marriage because when Seth added Brandon to his friends list and wanted to connect on Facebook, Brandon jumped at the opening and asked him out.  See, you should never be afraid to take the first step if someone shows an interest and you are interested as well.  After dating for a while they ended up getting engaged and decided to finally tie the knot.  Instead of getting married in Salt Lake City where they had met, the two chose to have their wedding at the Canyon’s Resort in Park City Utah.

Not only is the Canyon’s Resort in Park City a great venue for gay weddings in Utah because it is gay friendly, but you get stunning mountain views, activities for the adventurous like an 8,000 foot above sea level gondola ride and even a spa to help all of your guests, and yourself get pampered and relax.  The menu looks ok for a mountain town, I wasn’t to impressed with looking at it, but I’m sure that their catering for a wedding is much better.

utah gay weddings

utah gay weddings

Overall I asked Brandon what he would recommend to gay couples who are planning gay weddings in Utah and he recommended this.

Pick a venue that you feel will represent you well.  Research your service providers and make sure they come recommended.  Most of all, take time to plan but also allow time to enjoy your special day!

If you’re planning your big gay wedding in Utah or anywhere else, please do your research so that everything works out before the wedding and you can take time to enjoy your wedding since it is your day with your partner.  Below are a few of the wedding vendors that I have relationships with and trust.  Let them know that you found them on Gay Wedding Gear and you may end up getting a discount.



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